Sometimes it’s fun to do tarot in pairs!
So here’s a spread for exploring the energy between two people in a relationship.
You could use this for lovers, friendships, colleagues, couples, or partnerships within a poly relationships – anywhere where you have two people relating to each other!
Here’s the full-length spread, and if you scroll down to below that, you’ll find a shorter mini version too.
The spread has three elements:
Me – as in, the querent, the person leading the reading
You – the second person.
Us – the relationship itself – which here is just as important than the two individuals.
Shuffle the cards together, making sure both of you get a good go at those cards and can handle and shuffle them for as long as you/they want.
The Relationship Tarot Spread
Lay the nine cards out in three columns, one row at a time. Start with yourself (‘me’) on the left, then the other person (‘you’) on the right, the the relationship itself in the centre.
1. Me – where I’m at
- What I’m doing or bringing
What I need from this relationship
4. You – where you’re at
- What you are doing or bringing
What you need from this relationship
7. Us – together, right now
- Where the relationship is heading
What the relationship needs from both of us
A word of advice.
Short on time?
You can of course do a three or four-card version of this spread, laying out the cards as follows:
4. Advice (optional)
That’s it! Have fun :)